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"I bought A.J. Mahari's ebook, on Loneliness. Wow! So much insightful and informative stuff. I had not ever really thought about there being anything positive about loneliness. You taught me so much. I have been able to make some wonderful changes in my life because your ebook helped me to learn that the place to start was with my attitude toward and thoughts about loneliness. Thanks so much A.J. and may God continue to bless all the work that you do."

-- Sue Johnson, Australia

"I totally recommend that anyone who wants to really understand BPD buy A.J. Mahari's ebooks and audio programs. Along with all her stuff on the web they are even more insightful and informative. After purchasing A.J.'s products I did some life coaching with her too. A.J. doesn't just write about BPD, she has lived it. She has lived both sides of it. She is an amazing life coach too. With A.J.'s support I am making my way through the pain and grief of having loved someone with BPD and coming to terms with the reasons for the relationship and my need to let go."

-- Rick Meyers, Scotland

"Listening to A.J.'s Audio Program, "Breaking Free From the BPD Maze - Recovery For Non Borderlines" has really changed my entire way of thinking. I was married to a man with BPD and A.J.'s wise words in the audio were just what I needed to finally make the decision to take my life back."

-- Mary Redmond, U.S.A.

Abandonment and Borderline Personality Disorder

Abandonment and Borderline Personality Disorder

How and why the core wound of abandonment is at the heart of the cause of Borderline Personality Disorder. By: A.J. Mahari © 2007 Published by PhoenixRising ...

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Borderline Personality Disorder For Beginners

Borderline Personality Disorder For Beginners

In this audio program, Borderline Personality Disorder For Beginners, A.J. Mahari, a woman who has recovered from BPD and who is a life coach, talks to those who are newly diagnosed and searching for more understanding about what Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) really is ...

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BPD and Triggers - Gateways To Recovery

BPD and Triggers - Gateways To Recovery

In this audio, Author, BPD and Life Coach, A.J. Mahari gives the listener an in depth understanding of Borderline Personality Disorder and the emotional triggers that are so central to having Borderline Personality Disorder. Mahari shares some her experience in how understanding ...

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BPD Recovery and Stigma Audio Lecture

BPD Recovery and Stigma Audio Lecture

86 minutes A.J. Mahari's video lecture can be purchased as an audio only dowload as well. This lecture was given to a group of people with Borderline Personality Disorder (also attended by some of their loved ones) A.J. Mahari ...

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Emotional Dysregulation in Borderline Personality Disorder - Borderline

Emotional Dysregulation in Borderline Personality Disorder - Borderline

Increase your understanding of emotional dysegulation in those with BPD whether you have BPD or are a Non Borderline A.J. Mahari © September 2007 Published by PhoenixRising Publications Emotion regulation is central to recovery from Borderline Personality ...

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Finding Hope From The Polarized Reality Of BPD

Finding Hope From The Polarized Reality Of BPD

Borderlines can and need to work toward welcoming in hope one step at a time through mindfulness and radical acceptance. By: A.J. Mahari © March 2008 Published by PhoenixRising Publications In this program A.J. Mahari talks about how those with Borderline Personality ...

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From False Self To Authentic Self in Borderline Personality Disorder Getting In Touch With The Inner

From False Self To Authentic Self in Borderline Personality Disorder Getting In Touch With The Inner

An examination of the reality of the false self in BPD and the reality that is healing through connection to one's inner child. By: A.J. Mahari © 2007 Published by PhoenixRising Publications In the audio program, "From False Self To Authentic Self - Getting In ...

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Lost Self In BPD - Need and Search For Identity

Lost Self In BPD - Need and Search For Identity

People diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) do not know who they are. They do not have a stable sense of any known self or a stable sense of known identity. There is a profound need to search for the lost authentic Self and for identity. At the center of BPD is ...

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Preparing For Recovery From BPD Part 1 and Part 2

Preparing For Recovery From BPD Part 1 and Part 2

Recovery from BPD takes preparation along with committment and taking personal responsibility. Preparing to recover is a process one has to choose. By: A.J. Mahari © January 2008 Published by Phoenix Rising Publications In the audio program, "Preparing ...

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Rage Addiction in Borderline Personality Disorder

Rage Addiction in Borderline Personality Disorder

Rage Addiction in Borderline Personality Disorder examines the reality that rage often becomes an addiction for those with BPD. In the audio program, "RAGE ADDICTION IN BPD" A.J. Mahari outlines and explains the formidable reality that the rage addiction ...

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Shame of Abandonment in Borderline Personality Disorder

Shame of Abandonment in Borderline Personality Disorder

Sources of abandonment and how they produce shame are examined along with the impact of shame on relationships. By: A.J. Mahari © June 2008 Published by PhoenixRising Publications In the audio program, "The Shame of Abandonment in BPD" Mahari ...

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Quotes From A.J. Mahari


"The central dilemma of the non borderline presents you with a quandary that in and through its predicament reveals a puzzle that you then feel compelled to solve. The what-to-do conundrum is unearthed. Your pain, the pain of loving someone with BPD compels you to want to help and to want to fix the problem to restore a sense of connectedness that continues to be puzzling, painful, and illusive. Where is love in all of this?"

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "The Dilemma on the Other Side of BPD" - Borderline Love?

"At the heart of much of what results in relating to someone with BPD is conflict. Are you experiencing an high and/or destructive level of conflict? What is driving that conflict? Is that conflict blocking intimacy and closeness? How do you react to this conflict? Is your own behaviour deteriorating in response to the conflict generated by the borderline in your life? What is it about all of this conflict that you are investing in and why?"

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "The Other Side of BPD"

"Why is it that we allow so much pain and chaos to be a part of how we define love? What is it that we still need to learn so that we can free ourselves from the burden and the pain of investing in rescuing a borderline? What is it that you still need more awareness about? What are the lessons?"

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "Full Circle - Lessons For Non Borderlines"