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"I bought A.J. Mahari's ebook, on Loneliness. Wow! So much insightful and informative stuff. I had not ever really thought about there being anything positive about loneliness. You taught me so much. I have been able to make some wonderful changes in my life because your ebook helped me to learn that the place to start was with my attitude toward and thoughts about loneliness. Thanks so much A.J. and may God continue to bless all the work that you do."

-- Sue Johnson, Australia

"A.J., your ebook about Verbal Abuse helped me to realize so much. I needed to know that I was placing myself in danger and that verbal abuse is not something to minimize. I also needed to know that toxic relating isn't love. Thanks so much for writing and making that ebook available."

-- Duke P., Ireland

"If you want to know more about Borderline Personality Disorder, as a borderline, or non borderline, I totally recommend that you buy A.J. Mahari's 3 Core Wound of Abandonment Ebooks. I have searched all over the web, read everything I could, including lots of other books and nothing was even close to as helpful to me as A.J.'s insightful explanation of abandonment in BPD. Finally, I understand.Thank you A.J. for the incredible gift of the insight you share that you learned through your own life experience."

-- Katy Gilchrist, Alberta, Canada

Splitting in BPD - Breaking Free of BPD Maze - Loved Ones and Family Members

Price: $24.00

Splitting in Borderline Personality - Understanding for Loved Ones

Loved ones of those with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) often grapple to understand this central manifestation of BPD.

In the face of the reality of the splitting that is a hallmark of BPD, loved ones will benefit from coming to realize what the cycles of idealization and devalution that are the result of the cognitively distorted black-and-white all-or-nothing polarized thinking of those with Borderline Personality Disorder.

It is not possible to rescue someone with BPD from BPD or from the defense mechanism of splitting that is central to BPD. It is important to learn how to cope with the inconsistent reality of the emotional roller coaster of being split by someone with BPD into either and all-good idealized category or an all-bad devalued category.

In this audio program, A.J. Mahari, offers loved ones of those with Borderline Personality Disorder insight and understanding about the central defense mechanism of splitting in BPD and what that means for relationships. Mahari also talks about the importance of loved ones learning to radically accept what borderline splitting really is and means in terms of who the person with BPD in your life really is and/or isn't.

Coming to terms with this understanding and insight will make it clear to you how and why you cannot rescue someone with BPD and what that really means for you and what it means for relationships.

Loved ones of those with BPD need to radically accept and surrender to the reality that they are powerless to effect much desired change and/or healing in their borderline loved ones.

Tracks in This Audio Program include:

Track 1: The Roots and Anatomy of Borderline Splitting
Track 2: The Powerlessness of Loved Ones to Rescue a person with BPD
Track 3: Whose problem is it really? Why does it feel like your fault?
Track 4: Radical Acceptance of the Powerlessness to Change or Control Borderline Splitting
Track 5: Splitting and the Non Borderline's Experience of BPD - What About You?

Breaking Free of the Maze of BPD - Recovery for BPD Loved Ones and Family Members
By: A.J. Mahari © March 2007
Published by Phoenix Rising Publications

How Non Borderlines can break free from the BPD maze - the emotional rollercoaster of drama, chaos and conflict and why they need to.
Break Free of Borderline Personality Maze Recovery For Nons Audio Program

Break Free of Borderline Personality Maze Recovery For Nons Audio Program

Mahari talks about how Non Borderlines can break free from the BPD maze - the emotional rollercoaster of drama, chaos and conflict.

This audio program is 1 hour and 25 minutes of Mahari's must hear insight and experience. In the audio program, "Breaking Free of The Borderline Maze - Recovery For Non Borderlines" A.J. Mahari speaks from the heart and from experience to those Non Borderlines who need to end their relationship with someone with BPD. She also speaks directly to those who may have ended a relationship but are still having trouble letting go and who may still be more focused on the borderline to the point that it is not good for their own mental health.

Tracks in This Audio Program includes:

Track 1:
Why am I still stuck? Why does it still hurt so much?

Track 2:
Mistakes Are Growth Opportunities. Are you ready to Learn Your Way Out of the Maze on the Other Side of BPD?

Track 3:
Trying to Make Sense Out of the Senseless

Track 4:
Two Paths and Two Choices - Are you at this fork in the road on the other side of BPD?

Track 5:
Recovery For Non Borderlines - What it is and why you need it.

You can purchase this audio separately below or in combination with other Audio Programs and/or Ebooks by A.J. Mahari.

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Splitting in BPD - Breaking Free of BPD Maze - Loved Ones and Family Members comes with the following items:

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Quotes From A.J. Mahari

"At the heart of the core wound of abandonment in BPD and its impact are many factors. Central among these factors however is the pain of loss. The pain of abandonment. The loss of authentic self."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "Understanding BPD - The Lost Self - The Impact of the Core Wound of Abandonment"

"At the heart of much of what results in relating to someone with BPD is conflict. Are you experiencing an high and/or destructive level of conflict? What is driving that conflict? Is that conflict blocking intimacy and closeness? How do you react to this conflict? Is your own behaviour deteriorating in response to the conflict generated by the borderline in your life? What is it about all of this conflict that you are investing in and why?"

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "The Other Side of BPD"

"Hope for change and recovery in a loved one with BPD often causes non borderlines to compulsively focus on the borderline and try to fix him or her in ways that only increase the pain, suffering, and confusion for the non borderline. When is hope really hope? When is hope false hope? I talk about the different faces and consequences of hope. Hope is often one of the biggest hooks and traps for the non borderline and I explain why."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Audio Program, "The Puzzle and Mystery of Hope on the Other Side of BPD"