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"I just wanted to let you know, A.J., how helpful your ebooks and audio programs have been to me. Thanks for all the hard work you do and for putting yourself and your own painful experience out there as gifts to those still trying to find their own way."

-- Donald S., U.S.A.

"I bought A.J. Mahari's ebook, on Loneliness. Wow! So much insightful and informative stuff. I had not ever really thought about there being anything positive about loneliness. You taught me so much. I have been able to make some wonderful changes in my life because your ebook helped me to learn that the place to start was with my attitude toward and thoughts about loneliness. Thanks so much A.J. and may God continue to bless all the work that you do."

-- Sue Johnson, Australia

"A.J., your ebook about Verbal Abuse helped me to realize so much. I needed to know that I was placing myself in danger and that verbal abuse is not something to minimize. I also needed to know that toxic relating isn't love. Thanks so much for writing and making that ebook available."

-- Duke P., Ireland

4 Non Borderline Ebook Bundle

4 Non Borderline Ebook Bundle

Price: $49.99

4 Non Borderline Ebook Bundle Featuring the Ebooks:

  • The Other Side of Borderline Personality Disorder - Mindfulness and Radical Acceptance for Non Borderlines
  • Full Circle - Lessons For Non Borderlines
  • The Dilemma On The Other Side of Borderline Personality Disorder - Can Borderlines Love? Do Borderlines Feel Love?
  • Verbal Abuse - The Roots, The Effects and The Danger

The Other Side of Borderline Personality Disorder - Mindfulness and Radical Acceptance For Non Borderlines

Other Side of Borderline Personality Disorder Ebook
This ebook consists of eight chapters that will enhance the journey of anyone who has (or has had) a borderline in his/her life. A.J. Mahari writes insightfully about how Non-Borderlines can free themselves from the chaotic painful drama of the borderline in their lives through the practice of Mindfulness and Radical Acceptance.


When a non-borderline is lost in the tumultuous world of a borderline it can cause untold pain and suffering. A.J. outlines 3 reasons why non-borderlines often remain hooked into the borderline's drama. Mahari also outlines the 3 main roadblocks to the practice of Radical Acceptance for Non-Borderlines as well as describing what keeps non-borderlines trapped in their own pain and suffering.

Full Circle - Lessons For Non Borderlines

Full Circle - Lessons For Non Borderlines
A.J. Mahari was in the non-borderline role as a child with 2 parents with Borderline Personality Disorder. She shares the lessons that experience taught her. She then grew and developed and was diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder. Years later, at the age of 38 she recovered from Borderline Personality Disorder. Then six years after her recovery from BPD she found herself in a complicated and most unusual significant other relationship with an untreated borderline. Mahari has experienced it all and come out of it all on the other side, healthier, stronger, more insightful and much wiser for the lessons. This ebook is a must read for anyone in a relationship with someone with BPD.

The Dilemma on the Other Side of BPD - Can Borderlines Love? Do Borderlines Feel Love?

The Dilemma on Other Side of Borderline Personality Disorder Ebook
The Dilemma on the other side of Borderline Personality Disorder, for the Non Borderline is a painful one. It is a dilemma driven by many questions. The source of those questions can be difficult for non borderlines to face. A.J. Mahari addresses what is at the heart of the non borderline dilemma, can borderlines love? Do borderlines feel love? Mahari not only answers these questions from the perspective of a recovered borderline but she also explains with incredible and unique insight of one who has been there why borderlines love the way that they do.




Verbal Abuse - The Roots, The Effects, and The Danger© A.J. Mahari March 2007

Verbal Abuse The roots effects and danger
In this ebook, Verbal Abuse - The Roots, The Effects, and the Danger, A.J. Mahari provides a revealing and informative exploration of the scope and reality of verbal abuse and its impact on those who are victims of it. In this 101 page collection of 20 articles Mahari outlines and debunks 10 Common Myths about verbal abuse, outlines things that people need to look for if they aren't sure if they are a victim of verbal abuse. A.J. examines the hook of verbal abuse that draws people into toxically abusive relationships. Also explored is the shame that results for those who are verbally abused and the reality of how this abuse flourishes behind closed doors.

A.J. Mahari, writes, "Verbal abuse is in and of itself formidable, damaging, and insidious abuse. It is not a lessor form of abuse. It has many dangerous effects and leaves in its wake a legacy of toxic relating and self-hatred"

A.J. Mahari also examines the effects of verbal abuse upon children. She takes a look at the reality of the legacy of verbal abuse as well. Along with everything else included in this ebook A.J. has written about:

  • The Roots of Verbal Abuse
  • Unresolved Abandonment Issues - Chronic Loneliness and Verbal Abuse
  • The Shame of Verbal Abuse
  • The Danger of Verbal Abuse
  • The Media and Verbal Abuse
  • Personality Disorders and the Toxic Relating of Verbal Abuse
  • The Legacy of Childhood Verbal Abuse
  • The Challenge of Change and Verbal Abuse
  • The Masks of Power and Control
  • Breaking the Cycle of Verbal Abuse
  • The Effects of Verbal Abuse
  • Verbal Abuse Behind Closed Doors
  • The Hook of Verbal Abuse
  • Toxic Relationships and Verbal Abuse


All Audio Programs are in mp3 format. All Ebooks are in PDF format. Audio Programs and Ebooks are available for electronic download only upon purchase.

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Quotes From A.J. Mahari


"If you have Borderline Personality Disorder you have met your one true enemy -- yourself -- namely, your false self to be much more specific. This false self becomes the shadow self experienced by those with BPD. The more you deny the Shadow Self, the more likely it is that you will be blind to your own faults and find those faults in others. Denying the false self, the shadow self, in BPD, only perpetuates your pain and suffering."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "The Shadows and Echoes of Self - The False in BPD"

"Each one of us is born alone. Born to be the very unique human being that he/she is. Each one of us will die alone. In between, in the natural order of life, there are times when we must be alone due to circumstance or times when we may need to be alone to take care of ourselves and find our own way through troubled and painful seasons. Being alone is not necessarily the reason for feeling the pain of loneliness."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "Loneliness - Its Promise of Transformation"

"The central source of negativity in BPD is what I call the core wound of abandonment. It is the abandonment wound that is the foundation of the black-and-white all-or-nothing thinking that perpetuates the borderline one-sided and pervasive negative experience in life. This negativity in those with BPD blocks them from the experience of hope. Hope is a central ingredient necessary for getting on the road to recovery."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Audio Program, "Finding Hope From The Polarized Negativity of BPD"