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"I bought A.J. Mahari's ebook, on Loneliness. Wow! So much insightful and informative stuff. I had not ever really thought about there being anything positive about loneliness. You taught me so much. I have been able to make some wonderful changes in my life because your ebook helped me to learn that the place to start was with my attitude toward and thoughts about loneliness. Thanks so much A.J. and may God continue to bless all the work that you do."

-- Sue Johnson, Australia

"A.J.'s Ebook and Audio Program for Non Borderlines - The Dilemma on The Other Side of BPD was a life-saver for me. From both the ebook and the audio program I learned so much about BPD that I still needed to understand so that I could make sense out of the chaos and turmoil of a relationship I was in and the pain of it all. This information helped me come to terms with the reality that love wasn't really what I thought it was. Thanks so much A.J.!"

-- Cindy Mcphail, London, England

"If you want to know more about Borderline Personality Disorder, as a borderline, or non borderline, I totally recommend that you buy A.J. Mahari's 3 Core Wound of Abandonment Ebooks. I have searched all over the web, read everything I could, including lots of other books and nothing was even close to as helpful to me as A.J.'s insightful explanation of abandonment in BPD. Finally, I understand.Thank you A.J. for the incredible gift of the insight you share that you learned through your own life experience."

-- Katy Gilchrist, Alberta, Canada

3 Non Borderline Ebooks 2 Audio Programs Bundle

3 Non Borderline Ebooks 2 Audio Programs Bundle

Price: $60.99

3 Non Borderline Ebooks 2 Audio Programs Bundle


Ebooks Included:
  • The Other Side of Borderline Personality Disorder - Mindfulness and Radical Acceptance for Non Borderlines
  • Full Circle - Lessons For Non Borderlines
  • The Dilemma On The Other Side of Borderline Personality Disorder - Can Borderlines Love? Do Borderlines Feel Love?


The Other Side of Borderline Personality Disorder - Mindfulness and Radical Acceptance For Non Borderlines

Other Side of Borderline Personality
This ebook consists of eight chapters that will enhance the journey of anyone who has (or has had) a borderline in his/her life. A.J. Mahari writes insightfully about how Non-Borderlines can free themselves from the chaotic painful drama of the borderline in their lives through the practice of Mindfulness and Radical Acceptance.


When a non-borderline is lost in the tumultuous world of a borderline it can cause untold pain and suffering. Mahari outlines 3 main reasons why non-borderlines often remain hooked into the borderline's drama. Drama that perpetuates the suffering of non borderlines. Mahari also outlines the 3 main roadblocks to the practice of Radical Acceptance for Non-Borderlines as well as describing what keeps non-borderlines trapped in both borderline drama and in their own pain and suffering.

Full Circle - Lessons For Non Borderlines

Full Circle Lessons For Non Borderlines
A.J. Mahari was in the non-borderline role as a child with 2 parents with Borderline Personality Disorder. She shares the lessons that experience taught her. She then grew and developed and was diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder. Years later, at the age of 38 she recovered from Borderline Personality Disorder. Then six years after her recovery from BPD she found herself in a complicated and most unusual significant other relationship with an untreated borderline. Mahari has experienced it all and come out of it all on the other side, healthier, stronger, more insightful and much wiser for the lessons. This ebook is a must read for anyone in a relationship with someone with BPD.

The Dilemma on the Other Side of BPD - Can Borderlines Love? Do Borderlines Feel Love?

Other Side of Borderline Personality
The Dilemma on the other side of Borderline Personality Disorder, for the Non Borderline is a painful one. It is a dilemma driven by many questions. The source of those questions can be difficult for non borderlines to face. A.J. Mahari addresses what is at the heart of the non borderline dilemma, can borderlines love? Do borderlines feel love? Mahari not only answers these questions from the perspective of a recovered borderline but she also explains with incredible and unique insight of one who has been there why borderlines love the way that they do.






Breaking Free From the BPD Maze - Recovery For Non Borderlines

Break Free of Borderline Personality Maze Recovery For Nons Audio Program
This audio program is 1 hour and 25 minutes of Mahari's must hear insight and experience. In the audio program, "Breaking Free of The Borderline Maze - Recovery For Non Borderlines" A.J. Mahari speaks from the heart and from experience to those Non Borderlines who need to end their relationship with someone with BPD. She also speaks directly to those who may have ended a relationship but are still having trouble letting go and who may still be more focused on the borderline which is not good for their own mental health.

Audio Programs Included:
  • The Puzzle and Mystery of Hope on The Other Side of BPD for Non Borderlines
  • Breaking Free From The BPD Maze - Non Borderline Recovery


Tracks in This Audio Program includes:

Track 1: Why am I still stuck? Why does it still hurt so much?

Track 2: Mistakes Are Growth Opportunities. Are you ready to Learn Your Way Out of the BPD Maze?

Track 3: Trying to Make Sense Out of the Senseless

Track 4: Two Paths and Two Choices - Are you at this fork in the road on the other side of BPD?

Track 5: Recovery For Non Borderlines - What it is and why you need it.


The Puzzle and Mystery of Hope on the Other Side of BPD for Non Borderlines


Puzzle Mystery of Hope Other Side Borderline Personality For Nons Audio Program
In the audio program, "The Puzzle and Mystery of Hope on the Other Side of BPD" A.J. Mahari, as only one who has been there can and made it back can, examines and explores the dilemma that non borderlines face when it comes the many faces of hope. This audio features a "non borderline" meditation/relaxation exercise as well. A.J. Mahari © September 2008

 

Tracks in this audio program include:
Introduction: 20 Minutes

Track 1: 57 Minutes
Radical Acceptance to The Powerlessness of what the puzzle and mystery of hope is and the challenges it presents on the other side of Borderline Personality Disorder Equals Emotional Freedom

Track 2: 78 Minutes
The central dilemma that is the core of the puzzle of hope on the other side of bpd - Reasonable Hope versus False Hope

Track 3: 54 Minutes
Unraveling the mystery of hope on the other side of BPD - The Hope Trap

Track 4: 28 Minutes
Non Borderline Meditation/Relaxation - Finding Emotional Peace

All Audio Programs are in mp3 format. All Ebooks are in PDF format. Audio Programs and Ebooks are available for electronic download only upon purchase.

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Quotes From A.J. Mahari


"Hope for change and recovery in a loved one with BPD often causes non borderlines to compulsively focus on the borderline and try to fix him or her in ways that only increase the pain, suffering, and confusion for the non borderline. When is hope really hope? When is hope false hope? I talk about the different faces and consequences of hope. Hope is often one of the biggest hooks and traps for the non borderline and I explain why."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Audio Program, "The Puzzle and Mystery of Hope on the Other Side of BPD"

"The inner child in those with BPD, due to the pain that borderlines have abandoned, may well feel overly controlled, abandoned, silenced, and neglected. The borderline's inner child is in tremendous pain and it is also the gateway to the lost self of the borderline."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Audio Program, "From False Self To Authentic Self In BPD - Getting in Touch With the Inner Child"

"The collective experiences compiling in the very young infant are forming an internal representation of the world. The core wound of abandonment results in the destruction of the emerging authentic self. It destroys the very essence of the developing self. Emotional growth and development are arrested as the result of failure to master early childhood developmental phases."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "The Legacy of Abandonment in BPD"